[I wrote this last Friday night in my hostel room in Los Angeles]
With all this focus on getting rid of bugs, I’ve been feeling a little depressed.
‘How can I teach people how to control the bugs in their gardens?’ I‘ve been thinking over and over again.
Tomorrow is my hotseat with Marie Forleo, and while I knew I wasn’t going to ask her about how to get rid of bugs, I also knew I had to stop thinking about them, so I took a walk down to Santa Monica beach.
Nestled beside the famous pier, I saw what appeared to be a circus tent. As it turned out, it was my lucky day. The circus had come to town… And it wasn’t just any circus, it was the only one I’m interested in seeing, Cirque Du Soleil.
I went.
Ironically, the performance called ‘Ovo’, is all about bugs.
I couldn’t get away from them. Grass-hoppers, fire-flies, lady-bugs, creepy crawly, spotty, squishy and hungry bugs. There were bugs buzzing and hopping all over the stage and wriggling through the audience.
While they were doing their mind-bending acrobatics, I kept thinking about the insects at my place.
“I’m just as, if not more interested in and fascinated by real bugs at home,” I thought.
Then I realized. I don’t hate the bugs in my garden. They add richness and interest to my experience.
Now, I understand not everyone is going to be with me on this one. But I’m going to share a recent experience I had, and I’m not suggesting you need to follow my crazy artistic mind to start sharing your home with bugs, but stick with me [I give you a practical solution at the end!].
My mum kindly house-sat for me while I was away over Christmas.
When I came home, she was beaming with pride, because she’d cleaned my house. Of course I wanted to thank her for all her work and efforts, and I did, but you know what? I couldn’t really see much difference. I just couldn’t tell.
But what I did notice, was the wasps who had made their home in my home, were gone.
Mum said it was a miracle, one morning she woke up and they were all caught in the spiders’ webs in the ceiling. So she got the vacuum cleaner out and sucked them all up, spiders and all.
I didn’t know how to tell her I liked having the wasps in the house. They didn’t bother me at all. Meekly, I mentioned it.
“Haven’t you ever been stuck by a wasp?” she gasped.
“Well, yes. I have. I know, it hurts.” And logically, I know I shouldn’t want them sharing space with me. But I’ve lived with them for months, and they don’t sting me.
Instead they amaze me.
With their talented maneuvering and acrobatics. I find them just as fascinating as the acrobats in the circus tonight.
You see, I think we live in sanitized, fear-mongered, germ-phobic, insulated cocoons of insanity. Thinking we can remove ourselves from nature, control nature, overcome nature, dominate nature. We end up dominating ourselves. We become too afraid of any little bite, sting, scratch or calamity that might, just might, reconnect us to feeling alive and thereby, give us a good healthy dose of humility.
Nature is humbling. And we need to be humble to move forward as a species so we don’t decimate the earth with our pesticides, insecticides, herbicides, and genocides.
Sure, I’m certain a wasp sting would hurt like crazy, but I think living in a bubble of fear would ultimately hurt more.
So, while watching those incredibly flexible, talented people behaving like bugs on the stage, a weight lifted. I felt reconciled with the bugs in my garden and ready to shed the illusion that I wanted to get rid of them.
Killing bugs is as interesting to me as going to war.
No thanks.
Watching insects and celebrating the diversity of life, being thankful for the cycles of nature and reveling in the chemical free zone of my house and garden, is something that brings me even more joy than watching one of the best circuses in the world.
And those bug-people? They were good. They were very, very good.
Here’s a sneak peak of their act…
And do you know what? When I came home the garden provided my dinner. I didn’t have to go to the shop to restock the fridge, it was all there, waiting and ready right outside the back door. There were more than enough salad greens, tomatoes, capsicums and herbs. A complete eco-system; bugs, frogs, ladybirds, skinks and all.
Now, if you are in Australia or New Zealand, please be encouraged… February is notoriously one of the most challenging months for grasshoppers and caterpillars. The good news is their numbers will naturally decline as the weather cools down!
Now here’s your practical tip to save your favourite plants.
In the mean time, you may like to consider giving your vulnerable seedlings and leafy greens a little ‘protective shield’ by erecting a simple shade house. You can do this is a matter of minutes by draping shade cloth or similar fine material (that still allows sunlight through) over four poles, sticks or wooden stakes and putting some bricks around the edges to hold it down.
It could be the extra line of defense needed to get your greens through these last summer months and onto your plate.
It’s lovely to be back home, and I’m excited to share with you new, exciting ideas I have in store for Sprouters this year! Stay tuned for details.
If you got a bug out of your system or simply had a joyful ride reading this post, please click the ‘like’ button to share it with your friends.
Have fun getting out into the garden and checking out nature’s bounty.
Now you’re growing, naturally!
With love,
Nicola













I grew up in the city in a unit and spend my childhood and early adult hoot absolutely petrified of insects — especially cockroaches. It was debilitating. The night before my wedding I was hostage in my bathtub for hours until my husband-to-be came home and ‘dealt with’ the cockroach in the corridor. It was a completely irrational fear. As for huntsmen spiders, that would lead to complete hysteria (by me and the men charged with ‘removing it’).
When I started studying Buddhism, I woke up — the reality is these insects are no more unsettling than a piece of fluff in the corner of the room. They don’t want to come near you anymore than you want to go near them — and they have just as much right to be here.
Fear has motivated people to act in ways that defy belief. In most cases it’s a useless and debilitating emotion that we do well to understand and thus minimise.
I now happily share my house with rather large huntsman spiders — we have a gentleman’s agreement and it seems to work — I don’t go near them and they don’t go near me. In fact I it feels like they’re watching over us.
I still don’t love cockroaches — but I don’t fear them anymore. The less I pay attention to them the less I seem to notice them. I also finally found out that even if they do crawl all over you in your sleep, it doesn’t kill you — in fact it feels kind of nice until you realise what it is!!! Then you go back to sleep!
Wow Simone,
I’m so impressed you are sharing your home with a huntsman spider. That’s a massive mind-shift
I remember sharing my bedroom with one when I was growing up, and I loved him. I thought of him as watching over me too.
It was actually hilarious, on the same day I saw ‘Ovo’ I overheard or had conversations with THREE different groups of people about the dangerous and life-threatening animals, reptiles and insects in Australia. It turned out we have a very popular reputation for being one of the most dangerous places on earth. When in reality, we who live here, know it’s pretty darn rare for someone to die of anything bug or even shark related.
Mean-while, guns roam galore in the USA and people die in car accidents daily world-wide. We live in a funny world were it’s easy to fixate on things that make us uncomfortable.
Thanks so much for sharing and here kudos for you for overcoming your fears!! xx
Thanks for that post Nicola, it was great. I have always been happy to share my outside space with ‘the bugs’
but was never so keen on having them inside and shamefully admit that many years ago I sometimes put an unpleasant end to the house spiders inside my house. Fortunately I have evolved and have a more relaxed attitude about space sharing.
I agree with your sentiments that we have become far too sanitized, fear mongered and germ phobic and it’s having huge repercussions in many areas of our lives, particularly our health and the wellbeing of the planet. The next time I see a spider or other bug in the house I will think of this post and know I am doing the right thing leaving it be. (Or if it is a scary spider, taking him outside ) Or more precisely, getting my husband to take him outside
Hope you had a fabulous time in LA with the gorgeous Marie Forleo.